Love...


Unless it's mad , passionate, extraordinary love,
it's a waste of  your time.
There are too many mediocre things in life.
Love shouldn't be one of them.

~Dreams For An Insomniac~

Bibo Novo


Have I gone mad?

NO, not really!
I like to think so.

Allow me to explain.


Once upon a time (more like a year ago), while checking out shapes in the Market Place, I came upon one of the most beautiful ones for males. Well, that is my personal opinion. Anyways, I liked it so much, more like I fell in love with it, that I bookmarked it.

During the year,  there were several occasions when I got to recommend it to a few people. I know with certain that three of the people I recommended it to liked it so much that they actually ended getting it.

It is the
.:Bohemian:. Casanova - Hollywood Edition
L$1,500
(6.69 USD)
From
Bohemian Style

Now, here comes the part you might think is kind of crazy.
 This is a new ALT that I have created to use for the blog.
I DO need a male model and sure some of my friends are more then willing to help me out. However I do not want to be an inconvenience to any of them so I decided to create a new account just for that.
I have loved this shape since forever and I don't see why I can't use it, right?

I named it Bibo, after my husband's nickname and intend to use it as much as I can for my posts.

Why do I love it so much?
I really had no idea until earlier today.
For over I year I had been fascinated by it and I always wondered why?
This afternoon when my son got back home from school and I showed him this picture and told him it was my ALT, he said...

"Mom, it looks like dad!"

And that's when I realized why I love it so much. It DOES look like my husband :)

But earlier in the morning, this is how my BiboNovo looked like...

Big change right?

CREDITS TOP PHOTO:
SUIT: Leon Black by Utopia
EARRING: Silver Men's by Chop Zuey
HAIR: Mark  - Espresso by Truth

A New Beginning


Second Life is a beautiful fantasy world and yet so dangerous, as my good friend Polly Reyna
from Tempura Island describes it. Still, I am so fascinated by it. The things we can see and do
are endless. So many amazing places to explore. So many wonderful people to meet. 

I intend to explore every corner of Second Life, every single one, and discover the beauty
in every place, even in the simplest ones. Trust me, beauty exists even in the most remote of places.
Sometimes we just need to dig a bit deeper to find it. But it's there, just like in real life.

Now the people we meet in Second Life, are another thing. Unfortunately, some people
can be deceiving. From experience, I have learned that many times those that act too charming 
can be the dangerous ones. I have met people in Second Life with the greatest positive profiles
and yet with time, I come to learn that they don't live by what they preach. 
Still, I do believe that there are a majority of honest and kind people in Second Life.

Once again, my Second Life will get back on track, by this I mean, live it the way I originally
had planned to do it in the early days. Explore, meet new and wonderful people, make good 
lasting friendships, and let's not forget fashion, enjoy every bit of it. I will remain truthful
and respectful to every person I meet. How can I change? I love people and I have faith 
in humanity. And just like my good friend Drake (drakesilverhawk) said...

Lori Novo: how did I give my love to the wrong person?
Drake (drakesilverhawk): it was what you felt
Drake (drakesilverhawk): but ...
Drake (drakesilverhawk): you have a unending capacity ..to love ..it just doesn't run out
Lori Novo: :)
Drake (drakesilverhawk): you don't need what you gave back
Drake (drakesilverhawk): you need to give what you have
Lori Novo: u r right

Drake, you are right,
 I'll be an abundant fountain of love for those around me.


CREDITS
DRESS: Irina Dress ~ Group Gift by Barlow
HAIR: Fascination ~ Onyx by Osmose
SKIN: Elle SK Line 2 #4 by Belleza
EYE MAKEUP: Misterious Forest V4 by SuPerBia
BRACELETS: Night Glitter by Glitter
BOOTS: Iyra ~ Pink by Sweet Antidote
PHOTO LOCATION: Lori Novo's Garden

GROUP GIFT: Metamorphosis


Free For 6 Days Only

Fuchsia Metamorphosis Dress

At
Chrysalis 
Gigli Aragami

Dr. Drake


This is my good friend Drake (drakesilverhawk). I consider him my own personal Second Life doctor.  He is respectful and caring. I call him my doctor because he shows so much concern for my health. I am serious. He always asks how I am feeling, if I have taken my medication, if I am sick and if I have eaten. If I dare say to him that I haven't eaten, this is what he'll say...

Log out immediately, I mean it!
Go eat, and don't just try to eat... EAT!
Eat some soup, some fruit and a big glass of juice. Then rest for a while.
I'll be here when you come back to take you dancing if you want.
But now go go go... EAT!

Well, he'll say something like that :)

Not only does he watch out for my health, but he is one of the most positive people I have met in Second Life. Always in the greatest mood ready to cheer me up. I totally am in love with his mentality, so optimistic and caring. You can't help getting contagious with his great outlook on life.

Last night he surprised me when he invited me over to his SL home and discover that his old house was gone and he had already started to build a new one. Drake is a great constructor by the way. I honestly don't understand why he would do that. His old house was amazing, but I have to admit it though, this new one he is working on will be even better then the one before. I am so glad he will be helping me do some major remodeling to my Italian home. 

Last night...

[19:01]  Drake (drakesilverhawk): so you up to dancing ..with your ole buddy drake?
[19:02]  Lori Novo: yes :)
[19:02]  Lori Novo: but let me go home
[19:02]  Lori Novo: and put on a gown
[19:02]  Lori Novo: get pretty
[19:02]  Drake (drakesilverhawk): ok ...its formal though ....tell you what you get even pettier than you are now ...
[19:02]  Drake (drakesilverhawk): impossible
[19:02]  Drake (drakesilverhawk): but
[19:02]  Drake (drakesilverhawk): well
[19:02]  Drake (drakesilverhawk): you can try
[19:02]  Drake (drakesilverhawk): and ill put a tux on

We went to the Phat Cat's Jazz Club

We danced the night away.

I hadn't gone dancing for months until a few days ago. I missed it so much.
But last night was the first time back dancing in a ballroom and it felt amazing.

Thank you Drake for the wonderful night. For making me laugh so much with your great personality. For truly caring for my well-being. But especially for always and I mean always being so respectful. You are truly a gentleman!

Just one question for you...
Aren't we supposed to be demolishing some walls already to my house? :P

ONLY IN SECOND LIFE: Rare Beauty


Japan, Tempura Island has so much to offer.
It is the complete picture of beauty, romance, and magic. 

The majestic ballroom, romantic hidden spots for lovers,
the golden hallway above the crystal waters, the Tai Chi circle, 
and the gallant handsome gentlemen waiting to make their move 
on the beautiful ladies are only a few of the wonderful attractions 
that make Tempura Island the most beautiful Place in Second Life.

And now we have this... this...
rare specimen of a man <3

Facebook Status ◈ Jealous Not Disgusted

 PERSONAL UPDATE


"If you're going to cheat on me at least try and make her prettier.
I'm supposed to be jealous, not disgusted."

BTW, this is not mine, I just happened to see it and thought it was sooo funny :P
Still can't stop laughing.

You Were Meant For Me


"Dreams last so long
Even after you're gone"


I hear the clock, it's six a.m.
I feel so far from where I've been.
I got my eggs I got my pancakes too
I got my maple syrup, everything but you.
I break my yolks, make a smiley face
I kinda like it in my brand new place.
I wipe the spots off the mirror
Don't leave the keys on the door
never put wet towels on the floor anymore' cause

Dreams last so long
even after you're gone
I know you love me
And soon you will see
You were meant for me
And I was meant for you.

I called my momma, she was out for a walk
Consoled a cup of coffee, but it didn't want to talk
So I picked up a paper, it was more bad news
More hearts being broken or people being used.
Put on my coat in the pouring rain
I saw a movie it just wasn't the same
'Cause it was happy or I was sad
It made me miss you oh so bad 'cause

Dreams last so long
even after you're gone
I know you love me
And soon you will see
You were meant for me
And I was meant for you.

I go about my business, I'm doing fine
Besides what would I say if I had you on the line.
same old story, not much to say
Hearts are broken, everyday.

I brush my teeth and put the cap back on
I know you hate it when I leave the light on
I pick a book up. Turn the sheets down.
And then I take a deep breath and a good look around
Put on my pjs and hop into bed
I am half alive but I feel mostly dead
I try to tell myself it'll be all right
I just shouldn't think anymore tonight 'cause

Dreams last so long
even after you're gone
I know you love me
And soon you will see
You were meant for me
And I was meant for you.
Yeah, you were meant for me
and I was meant for you.




GROUP GIFT: Filthy


FILTHY @ Place Alexandra Sim
Has free open group enrollment from now till June 8th.
After that there will be a L$199 fee to join.
You'll be getting fabulous monthly gifts for men and women. Top quality skins in all skin tones.
So don't miss out!

Here I am wearing
May's Filthy Group Gift ~ Female SKIN



At The Beach House


"What doesn't kill me will only make me stronger!"

I didn't crawl under a rock to die... almost did though. But heck, I am worth too much to let a coward and insensitive poor excuse for a man bring me down. Gosh, I even surprised myself of how strong I really am.

At the moment I am staying at Sweet G's beach house. He offered and so I accepted. I am having my good friend Drake, that by the way is an excellent constructor, do some changes to my Italian home. In the meantime I crashed Sweet G's crib for an undetermined period of time. He gave me the green light to feel free and decorate his island however I want, BIG MISTAKE :P
First thing I did of course was check how many prims are available to work with. I have big plans ;)
But for the moment I just want to enjoy the tranquility of his place away from everything.

Sweet G has always taken it upon himself to watch out for me. I've been friends with him longer than anyone else. He knew I was having a difficult time going back to my Italian home so he bought me this beautiful house which I fell in love with when I saw it for the first time. But knowing me, I am still unsure of the outcome. This beautiful home for the moment is being saved in my inventory together with the Egyptian Palace I used to live in before. My Italian home is being transformed into what I hope will be very different from what it is now. And for the meantime I will remain at the island enjoying Sweet G's company.

Friends like Sweet G are hard to come by. He is always making sure I don't need anything, always asking me how I am feeling and sincerely caring about my well-being.

He is a real friend and absolute gentleman <3

A Day With My Daughter


A new day means a new beginning and a new opportunity to make it better than the one before.
It's such a blessing to be surrounded by family and friends. What's better gift than the love we receive from the people that matter so much to us in our lives? We have to not lose focus of what is really most important in life. Counting our blessings everyday is a must in order to feel true happiness.

Today was a special day. It was a day spent with my daughter. I am talking in real life.

Being left alone at our home, we decided to get out of the house and make what was supposed to have been just another Saturday into a day of quality time spent together. Choosing to watch a comedy movie that turned out to be not so great was no excuse to not manage to laugh hysterically. I realize now that it was not so much the movie that was causing our laughter but the feeling that we were together was what was making us so happy. We joked around and had mango smoothies afterwards. We ended our day out by eating at Jack-In-The-Box.

Many times we forget that our children are there. We get so consumed with our own things that we do not realize that every minute that passes by is a minute that is getting closer to the time when they will leave the home.
They are growing with every second so we must embrace them as much as we can while they are still with us.
Moments wasted on unimportant things will never be gained back.

Thank you my princess for such wonderful day.

Love you <333

GROUP GIFT: Vero Modero


Vero Modero
Group Gift for the month of May
is this beautiful long dress.

There is no fee to join the group.

GROUP GIFT: Ninde Gown


A 14,000 Members Group Gift

The Ninde Gown
(Comes with Blue Roses Tiara and Arm Bands)


From
Purple Moon Creations

CREDITS:
HAIR: Broadway ~ Onyx by Osmose
SKIN: Elle Skin Line 1 #0 By Belleza
EARRINGS: Diamond Crown Earrings by Endeavor

Dream



I was a little girl alone in my little world
Who dreamed of a little home for me.
I played pretend between the trees,
and fed my houseguests bark and leaves,
and laughed in my pretty bed of green.

I had a dream
That I could fly from the highest swing.
I had a dream.

Long walks in the dark 
through woods grown behind the park.
I asked God who I'm supposed to be.
The stars smiled down on me,
God answered in silent reverie.
I said a prayer and fell asleep.

I had a dream
That I could fly from the highest tree.
I had a dream.


Now I'm old and feeling grey.
I don't know what's left to say 
about this life I'm willing to leave.
I lived it full and I lived it well,
there's many tales I've lived to tell.
I'm ready now,
I'm ready now,
I'm ready now to fly from the highest wing.

I had a dream.

Poem Gown


Sale at
Fellini Couture
50% off
till May 13th



CREDITS:
ALL TEXT: Fellini Couture
GOWN: POEM GOWN
HAIR: Argentina ~ Onyx by Osmose
POSE: Shyla7 by Diesel Works
LOCATION: Bubblez Design

I Been Deleted


Hmmmm....
What is going on?
Was choosing to have some privacy for a day reason enough to end such a beautiful friendship?

Don't we all at a time or another need some alone time?

I don't see why or how that can be taken so offensively by some people.

My last four days had been very hard but I managed to stay strong. However, yesterday I REALLY needed to be alone and so I decided to put myself private from everyone and what happens?
Someone takes it as a personal insult.

In Ameba Pico my status has always been on private and never before did I had any problems with anyone. Not even with my closest friend there. Actually it has been like that already for over a year.

In SL I have rarely done it before, usually only when the depression had hit me hard. My group of friends have always known about this and respect and understand it. Yesterday I really thought I could log privately once again into SL, gather material to write a post, which by the way writing is a form a therapy that helps me relax, and then log out without ruining anyone's day with my dramatic state. Next thing, I get an IM that doesn't make any sense to me and right after that the very painful message...
"
"She has terminated her friendship with you. She thinks you suck because..,  "How dare you hide from her?"

Actually it didn't say that but that's what it meant in other words. The friendship was over and done before I even had a chance to explain. 

Unfairly overreacting over something so minor and not even giving a chance to explain my situation, only shows that the so called beautiful friendship wasn't strong or special enough as I thought.
Yes I have been deleted before, but never by someone I got to love almost like a sister. The previous times were either just acquaintances which a strong bond was never created and simply we lost touch with each other. Others were people that were only interested in a romantic relation with me more than a friendship. Of course, once they realize this was not happening, they lost interest.

It is very easy to fall into the wrong conclusions when we don't know the facts. It is also very wrong to unfairly take an action against another person without even giving them a chance to explain or defend themselves. I am still in shock and wonder if there is more behind her doing this. All that is left to do is accept it and move on. Never look back!



Why am I writing about all this drama?

I really don't know. 

Maybe I just need to do it to relief a little of the sadness this caused me. 
Anyways I thank her for her friendship and the many wonderful memories we made together.

Still, if ever I feel the need to log into Sl on private status to avoid from ruining my friends day with my personal problems, I will do it again.


CREDITS:
DRESS: Chopsy Dress ~ Red by Bliss Couture
HAIR: Broadway ~ Onyx by Osmose
EARRINGS: Yak & Yeti* Bollywood Jewelry  Silver/Rubin
SKIN: Elle Skin SK Line 2 #4 by Belleza
LIP COLOR: ValentineGift 2012 by AVOKI
SHOES: Gigt_RuffleAnkleBoots_Red by Coco Designs

GROUP GIFT: Spring Dress


*Connors* Clothing Store
has one of their New Released dresses as a Group Gift until May 30.

It is the
Spring Dress Dots & Violet

There is no fee to join the group

It is also available in
NorthPole & Blue ~ OrangeDaisy ~ NorthPole & Green ~ Leaf & Green ~ OldRose
For
L$350



CREDITS:
HAIR: Sonya ~ Coffee by Truth
SKIN: Elle Dark SK Line 1 #2 by Belleza
JEWELRY: Cycle Set in Amethyst by Purple Moon
SHOES: Esther ~ Rosa by B&G

Thanks For Your Visit


What a way to feel welcome!


Image Reflections
really knows how to show their love to all their visitors.
Upon arrival, you will be greeted with two folders
 One containing this great 
Animalistic - Spotted- Leopard- Low Rise- Jeans
and the other this very sexy
White- Lacy- Top

This is their own special way of saying
Thank You For Your Visit!

But better pay them a visit today cause I do not know how long these great gifts will last.

CREDITS:
HAIR: Serenity Alf- Soil by Vanity Hair
SKIN: Elle dark SK Line 1 #0 by Belleza
LASHES: Innocent - Gentle by ?
JEWELRY: Kenya Set by Purple Moon
SHOES: Callente Black Filigree Stiletto Hills by **SD**

GROUP GIFT: Querida Skin


OMG!
It is amazing!
This Group Gift from  MyDear Skin Main Store gets two thumbs-up from me.

Q
UERIDA SKIN

You must run an get it before they remove it from the shelves.
There are three other gifts available for all group members.
There is no fee to join the group.

So what are you waiting for?
RUN! :P

CREDITS:
HAIR: Volcanus Earth by Vanity Hair
LASHES: Innocent Eyelashes ~ Gentle by ? Sorry :(
NAILS: Crystal Prim Nails by Crystal Line
TOP: Lace Top by Image Reflections

Don't Cry



Song Of The Day...
dedicated to the loneliness that sometimes we all feel in our lives.
For love that sleeps in a time when it should be more awake and alive.
For friends that were meant to stay but with a blink of an eye... they are gone.
For all things that once made us so happy... but now they make us so sad.
We run into a fantasy world in search of peace and comfort, but what happens when our fantasy world becomes more painful and lonely than our reality... where do we run to then... where?

But I always have faith that tomorrow will always a be better day <3
Keep strong!



And don't you cry tonight
There is a Heaven above you baby...

Being Careful Is Not Enough


Yesterday I was finally able to purchase some Linden dollars after having to wait until I could afford them. 
I had been visiting several stores in Second Life and making a list of what I wanted to get. I knew that May 8 
would be the day I would be treating myself to a few pretty things since I had been saving my hard-earned money 
and cutting on a few things i real life. I was counting the days, and finally, May 8 had arrived!

You can just imagine my excitement.

Last night I start getting a couple of things from my "Things I Want" list but since it was already late at night, 
I decided to go to bed and continue today.

But this morning, as I tried to log in to Second Life a window started popping up saying to enter the correct password. 
I started panicking since this is now the second time it happens to me. I kept trying and trying but failing in every intent. 
I then proceed to change my password since that is what solved the problem the last time. 
After doing so, I was finally able to get in.

Thinking the worse I check my inventory, my home, and even my Avatar. 
Everything seemed to be OK and I felt relieved. I then opened my "Things I Want" list to continue with my shopping for the remaining items that I was planning on getting. Cheo soon met with me and as we are talking I see in horror that my L$ balance was at ZERO. But how could that be? 
Just last night I had a good amount of Lindens.  At first, we thought that it was just a SL error so we start doing everything we could think of to see if it would change. I even logged in and out 
several times to see if that would work.

The balance remained the same, L$0


I then checked my Transaction History and there I found where all my Lindens had gone. 
It seems someone had the liberty of taking them as a gift from me without asking!

Destination: chikaplaton
Gift
Region: Fathom

I have always taken all the precautions so this would never happen to me.
 I never accept anything from strangers. I have even become so paranoid with all the hacking that has
been going around that I have even stopped answering IMs from people I don't know, but
unfortunately, this was still able to happen.

I like to help out people when I can and many times share the little or a lot that I have with those around me. 
Yes, I am bothered by people that ask for money, but at this point and what Second Life has become,
I have more respect for a beggar than a thief.

chikaplaton
You have been reported!

I hope you enjoyed my hard-earned money and I only hope you needed it more than I do.
Just one question for you, don't you have any shame? And some advice, work and have some pride!
God bless you!


GROUP GIFT: Hipnose

Hipnose once again has great new Group Gifts that just became available yesterday.


Black Cocktail Dress
(GIFT DD8)

HAIR: Argentina ~ Onyx by Osmose
EARRINGS: Rose Cameo by Sn@tch
SKIN: Elle Skin SK Line 1 #0HB by Belleza
MASK: Queen Make Up

Long Skirt and Net Top
(GIFT DD17)

HAIR: Barbe ~ Black by Zibska
SKIN: Vixie ~ Medium by [sYs]
EYE SHADOW: LesMakeups  Yuki by Miamai
EARRINGS: Hoop-DYM Gold by RYCA Jewelry

Brown Pant and Top Set
Includes Necklace

(GIFT HPD12)

HAIR: Gogo ~ Chocolate by Truth
SKIN: Elle SK Line 1 #2
LASHES: Prim RealLashes #09 Twinkle by CCD Jewelry

Pants and Top Set
Comes with Shoes and Bracelets

(GIFT HPD17)

HAIR: Dura x ARAI Curl (Comes With Hat)
SKIN: Merly


Black Pants and Top Set
(GIFT HPD5)

HAIR: Parisienne Onyx by Osmose (includes Hair Accessory)
SKIN: Elle SK Line 1 #2
EYE SHADOW: Glamourize Make-Up by R.icielli
EYE LASHES: Stars Eyelashes
NECKLACE: Aesthetic Platinum by Finesmith Jewelry 

Jeans and Top
(GIFT HPD2)

HAIR: Marlene Majestic (Includes Hat) by Edelstore
SKIN: Melissa Medium Line 5 #19
EYE LINER: Tribal Makeup by Dammed

Viva Mexico!


Feliz Cinco De Mayo!



This post is dedicated to my mother who was born in beautiful Mexico and to my Second Life friend Corsanti who is my only Mexican  SL friend.

And to all my wonderful Mexican readers <33




This beautiful Mariachi suit was created by Chigadee London from Couture Chapeau. 

[17:53] Chigadee London: thanks for buying the suit. you look fab
[17:53] Lori Novo: tyyy I love it :)))
[17:54] Chigadee London: Happy Cinco de Mayo!

I started celebrating since last night with my friends Jose and Paco. After a few drinks and serenatas we  fell asleep at a corner of La Cantina.

By the way,
most of the time I travel around Second Life on my burrito (donkey).
This is Panchito, my SL transportation <3

Danger Banana


I noticed a banana peel at the entrance of Electric Mainstore, and what do I do?

I step on it :O

And hit the ground hard. :/

OUCH!
My poor butt :(

I was in pain but thought it was sooo funny.
So what do I do next?
I step on it again to see how I would land this time.

... and again...

... and again...

and again :O

I am such a goofball!
I finally stopped when my achy body couldn't take it anymore. You must know that people kept passing me by while I was doing this and probably thought I was crazy. I even got an IM from a concerned citizen asking me if I was ok.

I liked the
"DANGER BANANA"
so much that I decided to get one of my own.
It was created by 
Kabuki Ewing
and its available in the MarketPlace for L$100