Showing posts with label Jerks. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Jerks. Show all posts

An Early Morning Service Negotiation

ANOTHER JERK MOMENT

MAX (maxison.jackman)
 Jerk: hello, i like u very much would you have sex with me for linden?
Lori Novo: mmm well how much are you offering?


Jerk: i offer u 5000
Lori Novo: for how long?
Jerk: 5 minutes?
Lori Novo: ok but do I get to be on top? I like top.
Jerk: no I want top
Lori Novo: No, but I want to be on top, I offer you 6000L if you let me be on top
Jerk: ok, you on top

Now, what a great negotiation! Did you see how I turned the table around and made him the service worker?
I am so clever, I win! Wait, what? Hold on, what just happened there?
DAMN IT!

OMG just kidding my beautifuls! It was just a joke. :P
BABYYY, don't get mad it was just a joke, come back, Steppenwolf come back!!!
Well, hello beautiful world, and a very happy Friday to all!
Are you all ready for another exciting weekend of irresistible sales?
I sure am but damn it now I need my 6000L back. >:(
The above chat is not real as you can tell. What is real is the chat I will share with you next.
It is about another encounter I had earlier in the morning with another one of Second Life's jerks.
I normally ignore, and block, disrespectful IMs from men who have no respect at all for women.
I usually run away crying and feeling extremely offended. But not today.
Today I felt like standing up for myself and giving the jerk a piece of my mind, which is something 
I do not recommend. My best advice is not to engage with these types of men because they are so
stupidly dumb that they seriously feel entitled and see women as objects for their enjoyment.
Engaging with them will only encourage them to continue and really, we have better things to do.
Not only that, but today's jerk actually felt offended and disrespected by what I had to say.
The nerve I tell you. This is not the first time I have been offered Lindens for sex in Second Life
and sadly I am not the only woman who has been disrespected this way. Many women are.
Here you can read about the first time ever when I was offered Lindens for sex while I was at
Tempura doing Tai Chi.

Today, I really don't know why I decided to answer back, and especially glad I didn't let it bring me
down as it always happens. I chose to laugh about it even though it is not funny at all but a very serious
problem women in Second Life have to endure too often. But really, I prefer to laugh at the stupidity of
these men with brains as small as their *icks that need to pay for sex, or otherwise, they wouldn't
be getting any.

To today's jerk, my advice is, why don't you use that 5000L and try to upgrade that little brain of yours?
Oh wait, you'll need a lot and I mean A LOT more than just 5000 for that. Perhaps to be born again,
and that still doesn't guarantee that it'll work. Sorry.
His name was MAX, unfortunately, I can't give his full name without his consent. But oh god how
I wish I could. Anyway, it happened while I was at Stealthic Hair Mainstore...

MAX: hello
MAX: seems you have a good taste for dress
MAX: 🙂
MAX: i like u very much would you have sex with me for linden? i offer u 5000
MAX: i have big land [obviously that is all you have big because when it comes to brain...]
Lori Novo: not even for a million lindens, I am not a prostitute
MAX: prostitute? who said this? [Um, you offering me Lindens for sex = prostitute]
MAX: i offer u 5000 why you are beautiful i not think you protitute
MAX: prostitute its in your mind [Let me see what's in yours, wait, I see nothing in there, just emptiness. 
Wait, I can hear my echo, "YOU'RE A DUMBASS,"YOU'RE A DUMBASS,"YOU'RE A DUMBASS"]
Lori Novo: how about I offer you 10k lindens to go f*ck yourself [Huh, what was I thinking?
I'll be needing them to go shopping.]
MAX: my darling don't insult people just because they are looking for something different from you
you can simply answer yes or no I respect everyone's ideas [Aww, I'm sorry I hurt your feelings.]
Lori Novo: you are very disrespectful
MAX: I'll tell you more now I could insult you too like you did but I won't do it [Thank you, that is so sweet of you.]
MAX: this is the difference between me and you [Thank God we ARE different. You wouldn't want to
be like me, you know, respectful and with a working brain.]
Then I noticed in his profile he spoke Spanish
Lori Novo: asi como tratas a otros seras tratado [as you treat others you will be treated]
Lori Novo: RESPETO caramba! [RESPECT geez!]
BLOCKED

Credits On Me
TRUTH Angel - Redhead ● -Sorumin- Tropical Vibes Top -Floral Pack- ● Decoy - Dana Shorts: White

From Low to High

COMMENTARY

Zakk (atilla30)
Hello Beautiful World!
Very early in the morning, I woke up to these words from a man that had just insulted me
in Tempura Island while I was at Tai Chi trying to find some peace before starting my day...

Lori Novo: women don't deserve to be treated this way
Man: you are a white so i have got every right to treat you all the way i wish

I was very devastated after the incident that I couldn't stop crying.
Personally, I feel that for me this type of occurrence is happening more often and more seriously.
It has gotten to a point where I am afraid to go anywhere and I am even careful about what I am
wearing so as not to give any provocation to these men, but still, nothing that I do seems to work.
Today, there was a moment when I truly felt like just leaving Second Life for good.
I am sure most women get this same type of disrespect and treatment from random men that
seem to think it is alright to disrespect us.

IT IS NOT RIGHT!
It hurts and humiliates us.



Now, not only was I being disrespected for being a woman but also for the color of my skin.
How sad is that? Really? I am sure many women have been treated the same way for these same reasons
and my heart goes out to all of them. Doesn't matter if we are white, black, Asian, or Latina like me,
no woman deserves to be disrespected. Period!

So yes, this morning I truly felt I had already had enough. I felt tired and disappointed
and felt that it would be best just to leave Second Life for good.
So I logged out.


I was heading back to my bed since I couldn't stop crying and I was also in a very intense physical pain.
As you all know, I am not a very healthy person. I often suffer from pain that limits my abilities to
perform even the smallest of things, like brushing my own hair, holding a fork or spoon to eat,
walking and even sitting down. Really, when I get through the pain period, there is not much I can do
and will need help with most things.

But going back to my story.
Before I got to bed I decided to take a quick look at my Flickr stream, which is something that I really
don't do much since I feel I am kind of divorced from it, and noticed a comment that turned my whole
day around. It truly changed my mind direction and made me realize that there are very beautiful
reasons not to give up on my Second Life.

Cajsa Lilliehook
I love your blog and featured in my weekly column highlighting the best blogs of SL

Now, what a beautiful gift and surprise that was. Just what I needed to remind me that my journey in
this virtual world is a beautiful one no matter what.


But, how about two beautiful gifts and surprises in one day?
After reading the beautiful recognition that Cajsa Lilliehook so kindly had given me in her amazing
blog, which made me feel so honored and brought more tears to my eyes (happy tears), I then found out
that our little boat had continued making waves and placing us in the #15 spot in the 90 top Second
Life Blogs.


90 Best Second Life Fashion Blogs and Websites
The best Second Life Fashion blogs from thousands of blogs on the web and ranked by traffic, social
media followers & freshness.

Now, this is another beautiful reason to continue.
And it is all thanks to you my beautiful people. You that take the time every day to come and visit me.
You, that continue to give me all your love and support through all these years. Now that I started
writing more and not featuring just fashion the views per day have tripled and continue to rise every
week which means more people are becoming part of our family.
I thank you all very much from the bottom of my heart for giving me this beautiful reason to
continue our Second Life journey together.

So there you have it, I went from very low to very high, that is the rollercoaster of life.
We just have to hold on tight and enjoy the ride. ;)

Much love,
Lori Novo
♥


Credits On Me
DOUX - Venezia hairstyle ● FINESMITH YAM EARRINGS SAPPHIRE (No Longer Open)
-siss boom-floribunda navy dress  ● Location: The Dancing Rabbit Cafe (Moderate)

Indecent Proposal


Some time ago...

JERK: hi lori sex?
Lori Novo: EXCUSE ME???!
JERK: 50l
Lori Novo: Did you just offer me L$50 to have sex with you???
JERK: yes
Lori Novo: Are you stupid or what, what makes you think I am a prostitute, go to hell!
JERK: sorry lori 
Lori Novo: just stop Iming me

Seriously, what is wrong with this guy?
I was having a great time at Tempura with my friend when suddenly this idiot got the urge to solicit an
indecent service from me. I was completely shocked and furious. If it was possible I would have
slapped him until my hand became numb. And he is right, he better be sorry for such an insult. You may
have figured out by now that JERK is not his real name, I just changed it to that because it's the one that
suits him best.

Now I can look back and laugh at his ignorance and stupidity.
Heck, even my friends laugh with me when we talk about this little incident.
It was really a double insult to my integrity.
Not only did he think I was a prostitute, but a cheap one? Come On! 

Tempura Island's Rules
You Shall Not...

RULE #2 Any act of harassment (Ex. Stalking, verbal abuse with obscene expressions, etc )
RULE #12 Any act of escort or soliciting.
RULE #13 TEMPURA SIM prohibits any group tag or floating text that contains sexual meaning such as,
including but not limited to, “Escort”, “BDSM”, “Free sex”, or “erotic”.
             Also, these words are prohibited in the display name.

If this ever happens to you, save the chat and report it immediately to the Tempura officers.
We need to keep our beautiful Island clean from all this trash.