Please meet Peri (perissa.caproni)!
"Bad decisions sometimes make good stories." - from her profile.
"Whoops...... I think I accidentally deleted my 1st Life from my inventory !!!!"
Don't we all? These are some of the words you can find in Peri's (perissa.caproni) profile.
From what I can tell the majority of Second Life's population prefers to keep their real-life separated
from their Second Life. Who can blame us? It is a way of protecting ourselves. Our privacy is our right
and it should be respected.
This topic wasn't the only topic I found in Peri's profile that I agree with 100%;
Friends List
"I edit my friend list frequently, it's nothing personal.
Sometimes people just lose touch with each other over a long period of time
or I just cannot remember where I know you from. Thanks for understanding."
But do people really understand why they have been removed?
Unfortunately many if not most don't. Many times this action seems to hit harder on the pride
aspect rather than the emotional-caring one. But to be fair, this is something that is hard for both sides.
It is never easy to remove someone that we considered a friend at one point. And it is just as hard to be
the one that has been removed. I've been on both sides and OUCH, both sides are painful.
Now for me removing someone from my friends' list is not something that I do as easy as
removing one of my shoes. It is a decision that I put a lot of thought and time into it.
I do edit my list every few months just to see who I have kept in touch with for at least the last
60 - 90 days. After that, I'll still give it some time to see if the friendship-relationship can be saved.
If I don't hear from them during that time or if I am the only one making the effort to keep in touch
then it's just not worth it for me. For me, friendship is a two-way thing. Friendship is like a plant and
the two sides are the water and the sun. Without one of these two things, the plant will eventually
die with time. Still. it has to be one of the hardest things we all have experienced in Second Life.
By the way, I met this beautiful lady yesterday. What caught my attention was the sandals she was
holding. I liked them so much that I IMed her to ask her where she got them from...
Lori Novo: hi Peri, where did you get the sandals u holding?
Peri (perissa.caproni): hi there Hive
Lori Novo: what are they called?
Peri (perissa.caproni): hive // vacation vibes
Peri (perissa.caproni): she has a newer one at K9.
I would like to mention that Peri is absolutely beautiful and she could very much go perfectly
in my The Beautiful People section. She is very friendly and enjoys role-playing and it was a
great joy meeting her today. Thank you Peri! :)
Adios for now my beautiful people.
Keep wearing your best smiles because DAMN, you all looking gorgeous today!
Much Love,
Lori Novo
❤
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